• personal

    Really, I guess all I ever wanted was to get to know you just a little better than the other seven girls you fucked before.

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  • love, personal

    i’ve been thinkin’ bout you.

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    To the men I’ve dated in Chicago…

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  • love, personal

    Technology vs. Romance

    Or: How OKCupid Singlehandedly Killed the Serious Romance Let’s be upfront and honest with each other. This is going to get intimate anyway, so I might as well cut the tension now: the topic of technology and romance might be overdone. There are so many articles about how millennials are single-handedly killing romance, or re-inventing dating by removing the labels and “hanging out.” But when you have a sociological and...

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  • love, personal, writing

    My tears dry on their own.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojdbDYahiCQ It's been awhile, blog. I'm sorry for the neglect. A lot of things have happened-- some good, some bad, and some that I'm still trying to work through. I should mention that I started this blog with the intent to chronicle my daily life in Chicago with as much honesty and integrity that I could. In this day and age, it's easy to be a constant oversharer with Facebook...

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  • love, personal, writing

    Oversharing in the Digital Age

    I'll post my super personal post once I finish this because it's a rant, and I need to get it out. I know my generation gets a lot of flack for being so engrossed in technology and social media that we forget what is right in front of us. This is true. We are also known as the generation that divulges way too much-- we share our whole lives on...

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  • love, personal

    When It’s Over.

    I know what it’s like to drown in someone, and I know what it’s like to not even attempt to dip your toes in the shallow end. But this is the first time I feel like I’m sinking. It has been four months. Four months of frenetic, frenzied fornication— amongst other things. I wonder if you can tell. I wonder if you feel the same way. I wonder if you...

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  • academia, fashion, personal

    My apologies.

    Life's been crazy, you guys. I'm sorry I haven't been around to post. I recently started summer classes! They've been busy. And things have been a bit crazy on the "boy" front. I'll explain later. With a roommate switch (I am so, SO happy that I am not moving-- that process is a total pain in my ass), things have been a bit hard to process and adjust to. It's...

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  • personal

    Let me hear your body talk…

    So, this is me. I rarely talk about this because I am learning to become more comfortable with myself and my body-- but I thought I'd address it on my blog because I feel like not enough people "get it." So let me cut to the chase and write about it because it's part of me accepting who I am. I am fat. Am I always comfortable with being fat?...

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  • love, personal

    Self-love, self-care

    One of the best pieces of advice I've ever received in life has surprisingly come from my mother. I dismissed it completely at the time, but that was probably because I was a teenager and didn't really care to listen to whatever my mum said. Nowadays, it's one of the things that I keep in my heart and mind with me at all times: "You can't take care (or love)...

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  • personal

    Hello, it’s me again.

    http://youtube.com/watch?v=YHvNgpNnYZ4 I can't tell if I'm senselessly insecure or if my neuroses are completely justified. Once you're deemed the "crazy girl," you will forever be stigmatized, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. It sucks. I should probably apologize before I go on... Hi everyone. (Everyone being my pretend audience that I pretend exists, but doesn't really. I like to think a pretend select few read this, but I'm aware no...

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